You Are On A Long Thing Getting The Dream Girl

The life of a brother is full of ups and downs, from the very second he opens his little mouth to complain about what I still find hard to explain. 

Why do we have to cry to convince the doctors, midwives, nurses, parents and loved ones that "we are good to go"  on this wonderful planet earth? .

 That is either a question for another series or a question 'for the gods'.

 The Adulthood of a brother is complicated in different aspect of life most especially the adventure of seeking the 'Dream Girl' for a better tomorrow .

 For some brothers, amongst their 99 problems getting the dream girl isn’t one,  some others have to face a lot of challenges to meet the “Dream Girl’’ while some are so good at going after the wrong lady. All these still boils down to that one question, my Brothers on this wonderful earth, are you falling for a girl who is giving you mixed signals? What do you do when a girl shows interest in you, and still puts you "On a Long Thing",  That’s a serious predicament, isn’t it? Falling in love is supposed to be a happy experience, not a confusing one.

 But every now and then, there comes a time when you unintentionally fall in love with a girl who seems right, but is completely wrong for you.

 Are you head over heels for a girl who blows hot and cold, who behaves like your girlfriend at times and snubs you like you are a nobody at other times when she doesn’t need you? Then you get the  "weytin I never do thought" or you’re probably giving your heart away to a girl who could just be toying with you because she feels like why do some girls just put a brother "On a Long Thing"? .

 If you’re in a complicated relationship with a girl who behaves like your girlfriend, but doesn’t want to date you, you’re definitely being led on.

Do you wonder why a few girls behave this way? The reasons are many. But almost always, the girl who is leading you on, probably likes you, but needs more time to make up her mind about whether she really wants to date you. She may just be confused.

 Few girls could lead a guy on because they want some drama in their own lives, or because they like getting a guy’s attention.

 The truth is, it boosts their self esteem and fragile egos or in some circumstances, the girl who is giving you mixed signals and leading you on, could really like you, but she may be a people pleaser or an attention whore, who is too worried about what her friends may think of you because she assumes you’re not good enough to show off to her friends, which is even worse.

 Are you reading the signs wrong?, as much as guys would love to lament about girls or grumble about how fickle a few girls are, there is still a pretty big chance that the girl you like isn’t leading you on at all.

Perhaps, she really likes you as a friend and she is just being friendly with you because she feels comfortable around you.

 Girls are a lot more touchy feely than guys, and there is a very good chance that you may be misunderstanding that friendly touch for a flirty touch. After all, there is only a veiled line separating flirty friends and mixed signals.

 If you start falling for a friend, you may assume she likes you back because in your mind, that is what you’re secretly hoping for.